Pre-Wed Course

Yeay!!dah dapat sijil.alhamdulillah, sudah boleh kawen (gatal mode, ahaks) :-)

Last month, I have attended the Pre-Wed Course with my beloved fiance and his sister.

Someone  asked me why I attend this course too early as my BIG day will be at the end 2011.

"Senang.tak payah2 nak kelam kabut di saat akhir. lagipun, byk lagi persiapan yang tak settle".

The speaker mostly dari Jabatan Agama Islam Wilayah Persekutuan (JAWI). They are very inspired, motivated and a bit funny. Dalam gurau2 kasar yang disampaikan, terselit beberapa nasihat dan panduan berguna yang dapat diambil di dalam melayari alam rumahtangga nnt.

From the course, I have add another value information on PRE-WEDDING, WEDDING, MARRIAGE LIFE and BROKEN MARRIAGE LIFE.

Notakaki:Maaf blog telah bersawang agak begitu lama :D

SEVEN vs SEVEN in 2011

Her adrenalin beat faster.

The clock turn even faster.

She's looking at the 'sirih junjung' and a few of her 'hantaran' which was not done yet.


Then, there came the savior to help her to finish the decoration.

After clearing-arranging-finishing her preparation, she is then ready to be self touch up by her beloved sister.

When her fiance-to-be representative arrived, her adrenalin became even faster.

Selesai urusan menyarungkan cincin, terpancar riak kegembiraan dan kelegaan di wajahnya. Flash kamera di sana sini sehingga tidak tahu arah mana yang harus difokuskan.
"Alhamdulillah, berakhir penantian selama 2 1/2 tahun di mana akhirnya dia menjadi tunangan org. Satu fasa yang penuh cabaran dan liku yang perlu diharungi sebelum diijabkabulkan. Fasa yang memerlukan banyak kesabaran, komitmen dan 'trust' di antara satu sama lain. Dia berdoa agar segala urusan jodohnya ini dipermudahkan olehNYA".

2010 meninggalkan banyak kenangan pahit manis suka duka seorang 'gadis lone ranger' yang berjiwa sensitif-emo-happy go lucky. Kenangan dan pengalaman yang memberi 1001 satu iktibar dan pengajaran yang amat berguna bagi menghadapi tahun baru yang mendatang.

2011 membuka lembaran baru dengan status baru beserta azam, tekad dan semangat baru di dalam hidup seorang 'BISMI NURDIANA'. Moga tahun baru ini diwarnai dengan warna-warna kegembiraan dan keceriaan di dalam hidupnya.

30 Days Final Preparation

counting..counting..

it is less than a month to go.

Mine hantaran to him. Theme: Merah+Putih
1. Sirih Junjung - in progress

2. Coklat/Gula

3. Buah-buahan

4. Cake

5. Kain Nikah- done ( beli package at Jakel)

6. Cincin- done (ade gak request nak cincin...at first bila dia ckp nak cincin, thought he were joking, siap habaq kat dia, cincin pasar mlm bole ;-). bila tgk muka dia serius..nah...ikutkan saja.survey kat bukit bintang.mula-mula mcm tak berapa minat design yang dia dah pilih tp disebabkan tiada pilihan lain yang lebih menarik, so agreed at last pilihan yang ada)

7. Cookies.

His hantaran to me. Theme: Biru Putih

1. Kain Nikah-Done

2. Sirih Junjung + Cincin - Done

3. Deposit Wang Hantaran - done

4. Coklat/Gula2

5. Cake

Penin gak fikir tema hantaran sebab baju tunang (kelabu merah) , kombinasi warna nie mcm tak berapa cantik jika nak buat hiasan gubahan. setelah survey blog2 di internet dan mendapat sedikit nasihat daripada beberapa org teman, final decision merah putih.

Survey barang2 hiasan ngan Shamiza at Semua House.Setelah membuat beberapa combination hiasan, there you go a sweet n lovely white red combination (gambar will be upload after the PRE BIG EVENT).

Shamiza, you have a great sense of art. thank you so much for ur creative ideas ;-)


For the next 2 weeks, another final preparation have to be arranged and prepared. Hope it will run smoothly.

Kenangan Bola Cat

Hot day.
Calm and wonderful scenery.
The people's noise.
The smile on the children's face.

Waiting for the bus to take us to the destination.
We arrived at the place and waiting for another friend before we start the competition.

They look very eager for the match to begin. It is a first time trial and error game for everyone of us. Eventhough we are lack of participant, we proceed with the game. After taking our equipment, our marshal brings us to the 'medan pertempuran'. We are being brief by the marshal the procedure of the game.

Bunyi tembakan kedengaran di sana sini dan berbutir-butir peluru hijau-kuning telah dimuntahkan untuk mencari sasarannya. Peluru tersebut tidak mengenal sasaran anggota badan masing-masing sehingga ianya meninggalkan bekas 'kenangan terindah' pada setiap diri yang bertempur. Pertempuran di antara 'sang jejaka ' dan 'sang gadis' menyaksikan pertempuran yang amat sengit. Masing-masing tidak mahu menyerah kalah begitu sahaja sampai ade yang ter'stuck' tidak dapat melepaskan tembakan :D

Sebaik selesai pertempuran, kami menikmati 'refreshment' yang disediakan oleh Achair Catering. Walaupun hanya beralaskan minuman 100 Plus dan sandwich tetapi ianya sudah cukup menghilangkan lapar dahaga kami - credit to Pn. Yani and Hubby.

Eventhough there are small number who are participate this match but for us it was such a lovely and wonderful day.

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"Tq.. Sebab sanggup jadi organizer... Secara otomatiknya kau juga organizer selepas ini.. Walaupun x ramai.. Tapi kite tetap meriah.. Ngalahkan pro..Hahaha! Aku undi bismi.." - KAWI
"1 more vote for bismi..bukan senang nak berkumpul mcm ni walaupun x ramai..great job!!!" - YANI

wah luar biasa.. hebat2 xDTM2000- best2... setting time..masing2.. kita pergi ramai2.. sape nak angkat tangan> - WIDADAM aka JIMAN aka KOMENG

What's our next event, guys?....winkwink

Sehalus sentuhanmu
Menusuk setiap jiwa
Jiwa yang resah, gembira dan duka
Kembali tenang

Di kala kesedihan melanda diri
Dirimu hadir memberi aspirasi
Dititipkan pada diri ini panduan
Dalam menghadapi gelombang dugaan yang makin mencabar

Di kala keriangan terpancar di wajah ini
Dirimu tersenyum gembira
Memeluk dan mencium diri ini
Seperti diri ini baru lahir di dunia
Dirimu ingin jua menikmati kegembiraan itu bersama-sama


Tika diri ini jauh darimu
Kerinduan datang bertandang
Ku tatap gambarmu dan kutitipkan doa
Agar kerinduan ini terubat

Ku bermohon pada Tuhan
Agar dirimu dirahmati oleh-Nya selalu
Cinta dan kasih sayangmu mekar di jiwa
Akan kuabadikan setiap pengorbanan, cinta dan kasih sayangmu di hati ini sehingga hujung nyawaku

Sorry..lambat post entri ini disebabkan ada hal lain yang memerlukan perhatian.

Last weekend, I'm just came back from visit my grandma who was suffering from 'Parkinson'. She felt happy to see me around.
I miss her laugh, her cooking and most of all I miss my old days with her.

I spent half day with her as I have to rush back to KL.

On the way back to my house, Manamore wants to buy a satay at Kajang. After bought the satay, we went to his house.
I'm having a 'satay' as dinner with his family.

As we are enjoying our meals and having a chit chat....

"Diana, satay nie siapa belanja?"his mom asks.

There no answer from both of us.

"Diana, diana bagi ape kat mak dia sempena HARI IBU?" another question from his mother.

"Hadiah kasih sayang".


Mom, Thank You for all your love to me. I'm really appreciate it. You are the best gift I ever had in my life.

Re-U

Rasa macam baru semalam jer Cik D attend orientation, meet new frens, attending 'kuliah', merayau2 at PKNS and Plaza Alam Sentral,'berpoya-poya', ambil exam and MERDEKA.

Kenangan tersebut terlalu indah jika diimbas kembali. A lot of memories that we treasure together, I kept tight in my mind and heart.

I thought of organizing a re-U since a few years back and as I realized there is a lot risks and challenging part that I have to make this wish come true.


Finally,someone suggest to me that I should organize the Re-U since a lot of my friends are on FB list. Some people say its hard to get together as they having a lot of commitment and to schedule their free time. Is it? I take those word as a challenge to myself.

As time goes by, I get a full support from those who are really committed to attend this event.It's only a week before the launching day.the Re-U that was planning since last year have to be cancelled due to several unexpected reason.

I thought this re-U might be a place for me and other friends to change their stories, establish our friendship,having some fun, etc but all the excitement change to sorrow moment."God have his reason why we can't meet now". I gain a lot of lesson and experience during my time spend on organizing this half-cooked event.

Reunion was changed to Family Gathering. It sound nice and lebih dekat di hati.

The Wishes

When the visions around you
Bring tears to your eyes
And all that surround you
Are secrets and lies

I'll be your strength
I'll give you hope
Keeping your faith when it's gone
The one you should call
Was standing here all along

And I will take you in my arms
And hold you right where you belong
'Til the day my life is through
This I promise you
This I promise you

I've loved you forever
In lifetimes before
And I promise you never
Will you hurt anymore

I give you my word
I give you my heart
This is a battle we've won
And with this vow
Forever has now begun

Just close your eyes
Each lovin' day
And know this feeling won't go away
'Til the day my life is through
This I promise you
This I promise you

Over and over I fall
When I hear you call
Without you in my life, baby
I just wouldn't be living at all

And I will take you in my arms
And hold you right where you belong
'Til the day my life is through
This I promise you, baby

Just close your eyes
Each lovin' day
And know this feeling won't go away
Every word I say is true
This I promise you
Every word I say is true
This I promise you
I promise you


I was fall in sick a few weeks ago n had a small argument with him. My 'migraine' attack my whole brain. I really tired of fighting with him everyday.

On the day I was MC, we still in argument mood but finally I made an apologize for all the bad things I ever done to him. He still can't accept my apologies.

tut!!tut!!tut!!

Him: Assalamualaikum, tengah buat ape? how's ur fever?Jika tak berkurang gak, petang nnt kita g klinik
Me: Its ok, dah kurang skit. no need to go to a clinic.
Him : Dah makan?
Me: Not yet.
Him: Ok, then I'll buy you your lunch. What u want to eat?
Me: Nasi Lauk


Half an hour later


Him : This is your lunch.Jangan lupa makan ubat n minum 100 Plus (as he handed me the drink)
Me: Thank u (spechless of his caring and kindness)

The aroma of Nasi Beringin membuatkan perut menyanyikan iramanya dengan lebih laju like rock n roll.

Bismillahirrahmannirrahim.......

I take my medicine n having a rest by watching 'Ku MilikMu'

It is so funny to see Eira Syazira wearing those mix n match funniest clothes with the BIG spectacles and it is so sad experiencing what Eira Syazira had going through and face because of her 'sister' bad attitude.

As I expereinced watching the 'drama', I learn something out of it.

Semua orang ingin memiliki pasangan yang diimpikan.
Tapi tak semua orang ditakdirkan memiliki pasangan yang diimpikan.
Just don't judge a book by its cover

"Yang indah rupa, tak semesti indah akhlaknya.
Yang kurang indah, tak semesti kurang indah akhlaknya.
Yang indah rupa, indah akhlaknya (One In a Million)
Yang kurang indah rupa, kurang indah akhlaknya (easily to find in this small world)"

We have to thankful to God for whatever God have given to us.What we have in our life is the best gift we ever have. Learn to appreciate others as others will appreciate us back. It is not useful any more to appreciate someone when we realized we have lost them.


I have a gud news for u. will call u later (received sms from him in the late evening).I was so eager to know but I have to wait for 5 hours for him to tell me the GOOD NEWS.

Him: I got new project. I will receive a better salary from what I have earn now. Bolehlah menyimpan untuk persiapan kahwin nnt
Me: Alhamdulillah. Jika niat kita baik, insya-allah semuanya akan dipermudahkan (feel a bit relieved and HAPPY!!!!)


Bila cepat doamu dimakbul maka Dia menyayangimu
Bila lambat doamu dimakbul Dia ingin mengujimu..
Bila tak dimakbul doamu, pasti Dia merancang sesuatu yg lebih baik untukmu